Soul passing.

I can hear them. Luca and Ivy.
He’s teasing, she’s crying.
“I’ve stolen your soul”, he keeps telling her.
“Give it back” she wails.
Amusing and annoying all at once…I call him.
“Luca, stop teasing Ivy.  She doesn’t even know what a soul is and you’re just irritating her.”
He’s still laughing.  I’m not.
I frown and ask him to tell me what a soul is.
He pauses the sillyness.
and answers.
“It’s a soft breeze.”
I’m perplexed.
“A what?  Why do you say that?”
“Well,” he says “it’s like a little whoosh.”
I still don’t understand.
“Why?”
“It’s just the sound of a person passing you on their way to Heaven.”
Gulp.
In that moment, I feel like I’m ten and he’s,well, forever.
It’s not the first time.

{I’m typing with tears in my eyes.}

54 Responses to “Soul passing.”

  1. Amanda says:

    I think your little man is wise beyond his years. I’ve felt that soul passing as someone left this world right in front of me…and it’s very real, and very much a “woosh”. A life changing, beautiful woosh.

  2. Melia says:

    You are typing with tears and I am reading with tears. Can I wrap him up and bring him to stay with me? What an amazing son you have. My children could learn so much from him.

    Big hugs from me!

  3. Amber says:

    I have goosebumps.

  4. Carin says:

    how positively beautiful!

  5. Marsha B says:

    What beautiful touching words from Luca at his tender age…. leaves you wondering…
    Marsha x

  6. Emma says:

    Wow. so very very wise.
    such wise words. from such a lovely boy.
    touching.
    i agree with what everyone else has said above me aswell
    big loves from me.

  7. Sacha says:

    Gulp indeed. Love what we learn from our children – so easy to think they are only learning from us, but the real lessons of life come from them. xx

  8. Jennifer says:

    I have no words..only tears.

  9. Christine Pobke says:

    Love this… makes me want to meet him even more. I always learn something from kids at a session – what a great reminder not to overlook their perspectives on life. Miss you… xx

  10. Katherine says:

    That is so divine, what a smart boy :)
    x

  11. Angie Field says:

    Reading with tears in my eyes. How beautifully amazing.

  12. Stephanie says:

    From the mouths of babes. How dear. How real. How beautiful.

  13. Anonymous says:

    Wow, I have the goosebumps. Your children are all so beautiful and wise. Must be just like their mom. Thinking of you all.

  14. Katelyn says:

    From the mouth of babes . . . amazing perspective for a young man.

  15. megmanionsilliker says:

    amazing. simply amazing. i was trying to explain “soul” to annie the other day and honestly i couldn’t come up with anything as profound as the words luca has spoken. thank you luca. xo

  16. tara pollard pakosta says:

    Luca,

    You are amazing!
    Sheye,
    He has such a beautiful way about him.
    AS do you all of your children.

    Tara

  17. Inger says:

    Beautiful and touching.

  18. Kristin, NY says:

    I was trying to explaine ’soul’ to Emily the other day, and I completely lost her in my rambling explaination. She just went ahead and changed the subject on me. I love what Luca said.

  19. Marvett Smith says:

    Love this. What a beautiful thought. Thanks for sharing.

  20. kristie kulik says:

    oh wow. Goosebumps!

  21. Emily Dilloway says:

    all i can say is… WHOA!

  22. tami says:

    nothing surpasses the beautiful simplicity of a child.

  23. Caroline says:

    How beautiful ~ words and image :D

  24. Shi~ says:

    Wow Shaye…Wow…!

  25. Laura-Lee says:

    and I’m reading with tears in my eyes….

  26. Lorena Mora says:

    Wow, I love the way he explained it.

  27. Justin says:

    absolutely beautiful. That made my day just a little happier. Thank you for sharing.

  28. Zak says:

    That makes me catch my breath.

    Wise one.

  29. Tanja says:

    wow.. I`ve got goosebumps, beautiful .. you should frame that.. Can`t believe he said it like that.. that is just perfect

  30. Shelly says:

    This is so heartfelt and eloquent. Touching too.xo

  31. Kati says:

    I love his way of thinking. I will pay more attention to the “wooshes” in my life.

    ~Kati

  32. Mari says:

    Wow! What an amazing little boy! I´m speechless.

  33. Lisa M says:

    How can he be so thought provoking at such a young age…..these are amazing kids you are raising Sheye. They will grow up and dazzle you….even more than they do today.

  34. Melinda says:

    Sometimes (most times) children see with simple beauty the things that elude us adults.

  35. LittleSweethearts says:

    What a perfect description for a hard to describe word.

    L,
    Tania

  36. Erin says:

    I am addicted to your blog, your writing, your family, your photography. It’s all so refreshing and brings me to tears often. You are a beautiful person and you’ve taught your children well.

  37. Sherri P eh says:

    Wow Sheye, I feel completely eclipsed by your son’s wisdom. What an amazing young man you have there. XO Sherri

  38. Jules says:

    oh my goodness. amazing.
    jbxo

  39. Lesley says:

    Wow, that is so profound!

  40. Vanessa and Kara says:

    Our kids teach us so much more than we teach them.

    It doesn’t surprise me at all that your boy is so ‘aware’ for the want of a better word.

    Much love xxx

  41. Lear says:

    what an amazing soul he is to notice the ‘whooshes’ not everyone knows about them x

  42. Liz says:

    This gave me chills. How intuitive and innocent and all things child. I learn so much from my children. I see you learn so much from yours.

  43. The Novelist says:

    Oh my. He is wise beyond his ears. “Out of the mouths of babes” has never rang more true.

  44. Pauline says:

    Oh wow, very thoughtful and wise, he’s amazing.

  45. Anne says:

    Wow. All I can say is wow. And amazing.

  46. Lisa says:

    Wow really is the only word… wow!

  47. Louise says:

    ….so very, very beautiful

  48. Liza says:

    Phwoar Sheye! That’s one child w/ a whole lotta soul! Just divine :)

  49. Eliza Boquin says:

    From the mouth of babes! I’m reading with tears in my eyes.

  50. laureen says:

    how beautiful Sheye…just so moving…

  51. Noora says:

    Im reading with tears in my eyes, that was so beautiful from him. What a wise child.

  52. AnneMarieZ says:

    you are raising him well.. you should be proud :)

  53. Tenielle Reid says:

    I’ve had a habit the past few months of finding blogs and seeing what the writers were saying the day my son died/was born… and this is what I find. Wow. I definitely felt that “whoosh” the day of my son’s funeral, so this must have been what it was.

    Huge hugs to you

  54. Elizabeth says:

    Wow. Words cannot begin to describe the depth of that statement. What an old “soul” he is!

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